Frequently Asked Questions
What makes Friends of the Forgotten unique?
We focus on healing through human connection. By pairing adults affected by disability with institutionalized children, we foster mutual transformation that restores dignity, belonging, and purpose.
Why focus on institutionalized children with disabilities in other countries?
In many developing nations, children with disabilities are vastly overrepresented in institutions—often more than 50%—due to lack of family-based care. These children face severe isolation and neglect. We serve all children we meet, but focus on those most forgotten and in greatest need.
What does it take to be a Friends of the Forgotten mentor?
Mentors bring lived experience with disability or deep empathy for vulnerable children. They are spiritually grounded, emotionally resilient, physically able to travel, and willing to complete safety screenings. They offer steady, compassionate presence, communicate with heart, and commit to growth and teamwork.
Do mentors need to have a disability?
Not necessarily. Many mentors do, but we also welcome family members, caregivers, and others
Who are your partners?
We collaborate with Catholic congregations, nonprofits, NGOs, and other mission-aligned groups serving vulnerable children with compassion, integrity and a heart for disability and healing relationships.
Is this a Catholic or ecumenical mission?
We’re rooted in Catholic values but serve ecumenically. We act in the spirit of Christ’s love—through presence, dignity, and compassion—not conversion. All who share this spirit are welcome.
Why We Go Abroad
What outcomes does Friends of the Forgotten aim to achieve—for children and mission-based partners?
Friends of the Forgotten seeks to improve the emotional well-being and sense of belonging of institutionalized children by fostering meaningful, healing relationships. In partnership with mission-based organizations, we aim to:
Ease the pain of isolation and stigma through compassionate presence
Strengthen children’s connection, confidence, and sense of belonging
Equip staff and leaders with tools to navigate daily challenges
Inspire greater family and community engagement
Promote inclusion and dignity for people with disabilities
Ultimately, we strive to help children grow into resilient adults—supported in their transition from institutional care to a flourishing life.
How is this mission sustained?
We are privately funded and rely on donors. Sustainability is ensured through prudent stewardship, strong partnerships, and a commitment to wise, steady growth.